Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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ONE leads to TWO

R Mohan

In general, I was feeling relatively in good peace for the last few months – no big fights, and no major conflicts. I guess, it is all due to listening to the two CDs – ‘FORGIVENESS’ and ‘TOGETHER DIVINE’.

However, last one week, I noticed I found myself getting irritated on my fellow-travelers and sometimes strangely even on those who are not present in sight.

I wondered why these old feelings about them are playing once again. It struck immediately to me that my mind is playing those memories of anger.

So I put on the CDs on HARMONY – one to LET GO DISHARMONY and another to CREATE HARMONY in our lives. Within a day or two, I was able to come out of those old memories and in a week, I was able to come out totally.

ONE leads to THREE

In the same way, suddenly I noticed resistance is pulling me back in trying out new ventures, which I was comfortably coasting earlier.

Based on the experience gained on dealing with anger-type memories, I decided to deal with my internal resistance – firstly due to desires (RELEASE RESISTANCE), secondly due to having (RELEASE) FEARS and thirdly due to reluctance to leave my comfort zone (WELCOME CHANGE).

The result – within a week, I was able to be back on track. Of course, I am back to listening to my favorite CDs Together Divine and Forgiveness.

It is amazing to think how Naran can figure out the various eccentrics of human behaviors and find ways to deal with them in a simpler way.

Thanks Naran!

Relationship with Your Inner Saint

Finding happy relationships

Everybody has one God-given talent, irrespective of whether they are successful and happy in their relationships or not.

All of us have an Inner Saint. Our success and happiness depends on how much we tap that resource and use it (for any aspect of your life). It is either sitting idle inside us – for most of us it is true, or we may be using it a little bit.

The happy souls are those who dig into themselves, find their Inner Saint and learn to reach it anytime they want.

What do we gain out of accessing the Inner Saint?

• You will get inner guidance – a universal knowledge that gives the knowhow to handle your problems.
• It helps you to find out where you are going wrong and how to rectify it.
• It also guides you how to fix things right.

I am convinced, please tell me how to tap that resource, you may say.

Let Go Disharmony and Find Harmony

Naran has created a CD – containing two tracks, which helps you in the form of a guided meditation, to tap the Inner Saint, especially to heal your relationships. The meditation helps you to get in touch with that part. Lie down or sit comfortably and listen to the CD, which runs for 30 minutes each.

The CD contains brain wave entertainment and the first part is to be followed by the second part. Releasing is needed every time. You listen to the first track to and then go to the second track or listen to both of them, one after another.

What happens then?

The guidance mayn’t come literally in the form of ideas immediately.

Over a day or two, you will get the answers in the form of intuition or messages from outside.  They will reveal to you on how you need to act and fix your relationships

It doesn’t stop here

The CDs also has affirmations – audible, and switch words (not audible), which makes it further easier for you to heal your relationships.

The affirmations are in two parts – one to heal the disharmony and another one to create harmony. For a list of those affirmations, please check the links:

http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/no-more-disharmony/

http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/24/harmony-and-love-waiting-your-door-step/

To buy the CDs check out the link: http://naranshealingmethods.wordpress.com/sf/ and read “How to buy Naran’s Products?”

The most important sacred word

Together Divine CD

Benefits

The most sacred word in English is TOGETHER. This Word unites the outer world and inner world. Together is the sacred switch word that brings all parts – all differing and conflicting parts – of the mind TOGETHER.

The separated self which is the seat of all our emotions is dissolved and united with the original self, which is always free and joyful.

By listening to the CD which takes you through alpha, theta and delta brain waves with the word “TOGETHER TOGETHER TOGETHER TOGETHER DIVINE”, one finds freedom, wisdom, happiness, harmony, and safety within oneself, so that there is harmony and happiness outside.

Instructions

•  Listen to the CD with your headphones.
• Don’t do any work while listening
• Preferably do it before going to sleep, as you will tend to fall to sleep

42-day Programme

Listening to the CD for a period of 42 days gives you a healthy mind and a healthy body, and brings happiness towards you.

The seeker becomes the sought and finds total peace, satisfaction, love, affection and much more.

Together Divine is a two-word formula that brings perfect geometry and order in everybody’s life.

Let our life be whole and complete with this two-word mantra, TOGETHER DIVINE.

Inner Smile Brings an Outer Smile

We normally ignore our organs. We always take the body for granted. The day when we send our love, our smile to the organs, they become our friends. A friendly relationship with our organs is a must to maintain our harmony outside. If there is conflict or disharmony in others, become silent and send your love to your organs. A weekly listening of the CD will establish harmony in every aspect of our life.

– From the introduction of Inner Smile CD

Her boss was rude about her report

Anjali’s boss was not a typical boss. However, for some reason he couldn’t accept the annual report she prepared for the board of directors. He was critical of her report by all means, even though she felt she had done a great job.

Anjali approached me to find a solution to her problem, as she felt she can’t make any more improvement. From my work with her, I knew she didn’t give due care to her body. So I didn’t prescribe her any remedies. I just asked her to listen to the CD for twice a day, for a week and then on a regular basis for once a week.

She listened to it, as per my instructions. After a couple of days, her boss approached her and told her that he was over-cautious as the report is for the board of directors. He apologized for his over-reaction and suggested that it would be enough if only a couple of minor changes are made to the report. Anjali made the changes, which she felt was quite acceptable and easy to make.

Moral of the story

When you show love to your body, others will show love to you and your work.

Smiling at your partner for life

About Inner Smile CD

The inner smile is a friendly smile from the heart to our own organs, which we normally tend to ignore. However, this is required by us, to our bodies.

We smile at our friends, while we always take our body for granted. The day we send our love and smile to the organs, they become our friends too.

These friendly relationships with our organs, is a must to maintain our harmony with outside. If there is a conflict or disharmony with others, then become silent and send your love to your organs. Those issues will be resolved.

The CD is prepared to give Inner Smile and Love to our organs. Even though the approach is similar to the one followed by Inner Smile techniques of Tao, the techniques followed in the CD are quite different from them.

Benefits of sending Inner Smile and Love to Your Body

General Benefit

Once in a week listening to the CD will establish harmony in every aspect of your life.

Benefits created by Organs when you do Inner Smile to them

Smile at the Organ	Benefits
Eyes	See yourself with love and understanding
Ears	Listen with love
Nose	Your  need to love yourself increases
Mouth	For the love that nourishes
Tongue	Increases ability to taste the pleasures of life
Face	Express your feelings truly
Brain	Teaches all life is a change and anything will move on
Throat	Sing the joys of love; speak up for yourself with love
Lungs	Take charge of your life
Heart	Become the centre of love and security; love yourself and all others totally; find love and enthusiasm everywhere
Gall Bladder	To release your condemning tendency, pride and bitterness
Stomach	Gain ability to digest every moment of every day
Pancreas	Your time is filled  with joy; release desire to control your life
Spleen	You will be supported in your life
Intestine	To assimilate good
Large Intestine	Release past; you will feel entry of new and fresh matter into your life
Genital organ	Be balanced in your creative flow; you approve of yourself totally
Kidneys	Life is in divine order and only good comes from each experience
Spinal Cord	Fear, resentment, guilt, victim mentality, and bitterness is released;  stuff tears are wiped out; fear of rejection, fear of life and all of fear, pain, hurt, cry for love is released
Hands, Arms and Shoulders	Handle all your experiences with love and joy
Neck	Teaches flexibility, develops an understanding that it is safe to consider other’s view points
Knees	Learn forgiveness; bend and flow with ease and love; life is yours
Legs	Life is for you
Feet	You are safe
Blood and Blood vessels	To be friendly with all
Skin	Protector of individuality; brings harmony, peace and joy around

 

Get a quick relief from headaches

Sathya

Whenever I have a headache, I just put on the ‘Stable Mooladhara’ CD. Previously I used to take pain killers. My headache goes off as though I never had it.

Thank you so much for creating such a wonderful CD. And your ways of healing are so simple that it can be used by anybody.

Naran

When you are affected by a headache, there will be too much of energy in the third eye area (chakra). It creates congestion there. Then energy at the Mooladhara chakra gets to zero.

While you listen to this CD, the congestion is cleared, Mooladhara is energized back and the energy path between all the chakras is harmonized.

Experiences on using this CD:

https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2010/08/21/i-am-tired-of-my-%e2%80%9ctiredness%e2%80%9d/

Advantages of listening to the CD:

https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2010/11/05/energize-your-body/