Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

ONE leads to TWO

R Mohan

In general, I was feeling relatively in good peace for the last few months – no big fights, and no major conflicts. I guess, it is all due to listening to the two CDs – ‘FORGIVENESS’ and ‘TOGETHER DIVINE’.

However, last one week, I noticed I found myself getting irritated on my fellow-travelers and sometimes strangely even on those who are not present in sight.

I wondered why these old feelings about them are playing once again. It struck immediately to me that my mind is playing those memories of anger.

So I put on the CDs on HARMONY – one to LET GO DISHARMONY and another to CREATE HARMONY in our lives. Within a day or two, I was able to come out of those old memories and in a week, I was able to come out totally.

ONE leads to THREE

In the same way, suddenly I noticed resistance is pulling me back in trying out new ventures, which I was comfortably coasting earlier.

Based on the experience gained on dealing with anger-type memories, I decided to deal with my internal resistance – firstly due to desires (RELEASE RESISTANCE), secondly due to having (RELEASE) FEARS and thirdly due to reluctance to leave my comfort zone (WELCOME CHANGE).

The result – within a week, I was able to be back on track. Of course, I am back to listening to my favorite CDs Together Divine and Forgiveness.

It is amazing to think how Naran can figure out the various eccentrics of human behaviors and find ways to deal with them in a simpler way.

Thanks Naran!

A perfect balancing act

FTRRS

Can a person who can’t afford to buy CD or books ask from person who has purchased your items?  Can one copy for self from the books and CDs?

It’s a humble request to know. I am not asking for myself. It’s for those who need healing your way.

Naran

If anybody can’t afford to buy, let him contact me in person. Affordability is subjective. Anything that is got free has no value.

The whole universe is a transaction of balanced giving and receiving. One cannot break the cycle. If you want to give free to others, you buy and give. Why should you copy?

You may ask why Naran blogs are giving simple solutions free. Here by giving answers to various questions I am learning the healing process. I give, to receive the grace of healing and teaching.

However, when anybody comes to my personal mail they have to pay a consultation fee.

FTRRS

Thanks a Lot for replying. I just asked this question because many people and many links do not allow copying the subject.

Yes, I am very grateful to you for sharing so much great values – just not suggesting remedies but also suggesting being a humble person, to be a wise person and showing us a right way to lead life.

And I never meant anything wrong. I had a thought to help people, if anybody needs at the time of emergency.

I humbly request you for not misunderstanding me .Thanks for sharing so much goodness with OPEN Heart. God bless you.

Naran

I did not misunderstand you at all. I just gave my answer.

You can ask people to come to the link or take a print out and send to as many as possible.

The products like books, CDs and pills involve cost and that is what I meant by that.

Best of divine grace to you always!!!

Getting benefits out of meditation

I want to get the benefits out of the meditation. And at the same time my mind gets distracted. Will there be any possibility?

Or will there be any chance of getting the benefits of meditation, even though there are distractions?

Yes definitely there is a possibility. All the CDs in the Bach Flower Study Centre are tuned in certain brainwaves. Whenever a person goes into a deep meditation, or deep meditative level, the brain produces certain waves called Brainwaves.

When you are in deep meditation you go to Alpha, then Theta and then Delta. Normally our distractive mind is in Beta State.

When you listen to the Meditation CD with a headphone, whatever Alpha waves generated will be imposed on your brain. When those waves are imposed, you will be forced to come out of Beta level and you will be in the silence mode.

In that way, you can silence the rebellious or the resisting mind. That is the only way by which you can do meditation.

The other way is really cumbersome for every time you have to be careful about the mind, because the mind is a great trickster. You think that you will be able to manage it, for when you just say ‘release’, the thought goes off.

You feel happy then. But the happy state itself is another thought – whether it is happiness, sadness, calmness, worry, anger or love, all of them is a thought.  Every such thought has to be released.

Relationship with Parents = Relationship with Others

Kasi

Job

I am trying for good job for past three years but only phone calls I am receiving after that I am not getting any response.

Currently I am working for a company in UAE, but for past three yrs they didn’t give me any increment or any facilities. I am like slave here and I am in a responsible post so that I need to follow curtail rules and regulations but the CEO and the Operations manager does not allow me to do that and always cornering me. And they are doing illegal jobs.

Pls help me to find a good job very soon. I am afraid also.

Family

Always there is no understanding between our family members, whenever we all get together definitely there will be fight and we lose our happiness. Particularly everybody is scolding mother, pointing out her mistakes and etc. So always there is problem like this.

Now I am not talking to my mom, father, sisters and brother.

Kindly suggest me to get rid of this and give me some mantra for my anger, misunderstanding, suspecting, and possessiveness, jealous and backstabbing and fighting.

Naran

Did you notice your questions about your work place and family is similar?

There is always a web in anybody’s life.

What you do to others will be done to you.

Can anybody, who insults his parents, live peacefully in this world?

The physical parents represent our own father and mother principle. You are part of them.

Phone up your parents and ask for forgiveness.

Keep their photographs and daily do 11 prostrations to them.

During every prostration, say “DIVINE! FORGIVE ME! LOVE ME I THANK YOU”. Do this for one year.

However they are, you have to CONCEDE and BOW.

There cannot be any relief in your life if you don’t do this.

In the night before sleeping, while on the bed, listen to the Two CDs “FORGIVENESS” and “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Magic Switch Words

Why I need to listen to these MagicSwitch CD series?

How many times you can chant in a day? Say 1000 times or 2000 times, while doing all your household work or office work.

Also, can you remember to do it throughout the day, day and out? Not possible for ordinary souls like us. It’s mentally tiring and boring too.

No problem for me. I can do it as I am a die-hard.

But, how long you would like to do as one problem goes from life, another problem follows us?

May be, you think you can store the switch words in your mobile and listen to it the whole day – ignoring TV and other entertainment that you may seek normally. Yet it is not efficient.

Also, in this fast-paced world we need a quick fix, a simple approach which doesn’t take time and quite effective in terms of time taken.

Is there is a simple technique available?

Yes there is a technique that needs shorter duration. It is effective as well as efficient.

What I need to do?

You just have to listen to the MagicSwitch CDs from Naran. He has picked ten of the most powerful combination of switch words and has recorded them in Alpha frequency.

How much time it takes to listen to a MagicSwitch CD?

It takes up about 30 minutes.

During this time your sub-conscious mind would have listened to the switch words combination for 25,000 times.

It has a nice background music that will keep you in a relaxing mode.

You can either put your head phones on or play it loudly for others to listen – especially when you want your kith and kin to be benefitted.

Why it is effective?

Because you are listening to Magic Switch Word Combination recorded in Alpha state, your conscious mind relaxes and thus you are killing two birds in one stone – relaxation plus programming your subconscious mind. Therefore, the words reach your sub-conscious mind directly and have a greater impact on it.

Still I don’t understand how can I listen to the switch words 25000 times within half-an-hour

The same combination is played one after another multiple times, such that at the same time you will be listening to the Magic Switch Words combination multiple times. So it is efficient to listen to them this way instead of you saying the words monotonously.

The Music and switch words are tuned to keep one in alpha state so that switch words produce better results. 

A little more explanation on the brain wave frequencies please…

Every mental state, whether it is positive or unwanted, keeps the brain in a particular frequency.

Depending on the number of cycles per second, each frequency is classified as beta, alpha, theta, delta and gamma.

If there is a frequency for worry, there will be another frequency for calmness and relaxation.

Each MagicSwitch CD as per the title keeps your mind in that frequency, while listening to it.

The required frequency is achieved by binaural beats, monaural beats or isochronic tones.

Each and every title (MagicSwitch CD) has a background music blended with isochronic tones and combined with switch words.