I was job-less for 2-3 months in 2010. I got your “ABUNDANCE CD” from my friend.
I listened to it only for a week and I got many interview calls and finally got the job as well with good salary. I also used switch words advised by you through mail.
In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com site.
But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.
Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.
Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.
It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.
In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.
I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.
He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.
It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.
Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.
Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.
Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.
The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/
A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
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In general, I was feeling relatively in good peace for the last few months – no big fights, and no major conflicts. I guess, it is all due to listening to the two CDs – ‘FORGIVENESS’ and ‘TOGETHER DIVINE’.
However, last one week, I noticed I found myself getting irritated on my fellow-travelers and sometimes strangely even on those who are not present in sight.
I wondered why these old feelings about them are playing once again. It struck immediately to me that my mind is playing those memories of anger.
So I put on the CDs on HARMONY – one to LET GO DISHARMONY and another to CREATE HARMONY in our lives. Within a day or two, I was able to come out of those old memories and in a week, I was able to come out totally.
ONE leads to THREE
In the same way, suddenly I noticed resistance is pulling me back in trying out new ventures, which I was comfortably coasting earlier.
Based on the experience gained on dealing with anger-type memories, I decided to deal with my internal resistance – firstly due to desires (RELEASE RESISTANCE), secondly due to having (RELEASE) FEARS and thirdly due to reluctance to leave my comfort zone (WELCOME CHANGE).
The result – within a week, I was able to be back on track. Of course, I am back to listening to my favorite CDs Together Divine and Forgiveness.
It is amazing to think how Naran can figure out the various eccentrics of human behaviors and find ways to deal with them in a simpler way.
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I can most certainly say that I have been benefited by listening to the RELEASING FEARS CD.
Now, everyday morning, I don’t go to the office expecting the worst. Rather, I am more positive as well as calm.