Why my husband felt hurt
Posted by Elsol
In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com site.
But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.
Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.
Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.
It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.
In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.
I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.
He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.
It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.
Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.
Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.
Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.
The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/
A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
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I want to die before you…
Posted by Elsol
I heard these words from my wife, while I was listening to the “CIRCULAR BREATHING” CD.
She was arguing with her father, a widower and who is staying with us.
His son is living in US and so we offered to take care of his stay.
I didn’t want to break into their fight as it would mean either I hurt the feelings of my wife or my father-in-law.
While I was pondering over these words of my wife, the mantra NA HUM was playing in the CD.
It means I am dead – meaning my ego is dead.
I thought there is a divine message for me here.
So I decided to shut my ego and not to interfere with the fight.
After one hour while I was having my breakfast, my father-in-law approached me.
My wife was silent standing next to him with guilt all over her face.
He apologized for the quarrel happened in the morning, as it would have disturbed my morning Pranayama (yogic breathing) session.
He said here afterwards he will make sure that such things never happen.
My wife’s silence seems to be in total concurrence with him.
I don’t have to say I am quite relived as I had avoided disasters – today and in the future too, from happening.
Till today I do this without involving myself in any event.
Just observe what is happening around you.
Do not judge or react or participate.
To know more about the “Circular Breathing” CD, click this link: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/10/01/circular-breathing-cd-benefits-and-instructions/
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