Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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I want to get the benefits out of the meditation. And at the same time my mind gets distracted. Will there be any possibility?

Or will there be any chance of getting the benefits of meditation, even though there are distractions?

Yes definitely there is a possibility. All the CDs in the Bach Flower Study Centre are tuned in certain brainwaves. Whenever a person goes into a deep meditation, or deep meditative level, the brain produces certain waves called Brainwaves.

When you are in deep meditation you go to Alpha, then Theta and then Delta. Normally our distractive mind is in Beta State.

When you listen to the Meditation CD with a headphone, whatever Alpha waves generated will be imposed on your brain. When those waves are imposed, you will be forced to come out of Beta level and you will be in the silence mode.

In that way, you can silence the rebellious or the resisting mind. That is the only way by which you can do meditation.

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You feel happy then. But the happy state itself is another thought – whether it is happiness, sadness, calmness, worry, anger or love, all of them is a thought.  Every such thought has to be released.

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Finding happy relationships

Everybody has one God-given talent, irrespective of whether they are successful and happy in their relationships or not.

All of us have an Inner Saint. Our success and happiness depends on how much we tap that resource and use it (for any aspect of your life). It is either sitting idle inside us – for most of us it is true, or we may be using it a little bit.

The happy souls are those who dig into themselves, find their Inner Saint and learn to reach it anytime they want.

What do we gain out of accessing the Inner Saint?

• You will get inner guidance – a universal knowledge that gives the knowhow to handle your problems.
• It helps you to find out where you are going wrong and how to rectify it.
• It also guides you how to fix things right.

I am convinced, please tell me how to tap that resource, you may say.

Let Go Disharmony and Find Harmony

Naran has created a CD – containing two tracks, which helps you in the form of a guided meditation, to tap the Inner Saint, especially to heal your relationships. The meditation helps you to get in touch with that part. Lie down or sit comfortably and listen to the CD, which runs for 30 minutes each.

The CD contains brain wave entertainment and the first part is to be followed by the second part. Releasing is needed every time. You listen to the first track to and then go to the second track or listen to both of them, one after another.

What happens then?

The guidance mayn’t come literally in the form of ideas immediately.

Over a day or two, you will get the answers in the form of intuition or messages from outside.  They will reveal to you on how you need to act and fix your relationships

It doesn’t stop here

The CDs also has affirmations – audible, and switch words (not audible), which makes it further easier for you to heal your relationships.

The affirmations are in two parts – one to heal the disharmony and another one to create harmony. For a list of those affirmations, please check the links:

http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/no-more-disharmony/

http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/24/harmony-and-love-waiting-your-door-step/

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Durga Durgama CD

The mantra ‘Durga Durgama’ is available in the form of CD.

Benefits of listening to the mantra CD

The sound frequency produced by the chanting (pronunciation) of the Mantra can transform anything that is unwanted and un-required, both from oneself and others.

Its frequency wipes out all the dark forces in the atmosphere.

Its Divine sound waves will clear, cleanse chakras, aura and all the bodies – Emotional, Mental, and Pranic.

How to use the mantra-charged water?

One can place a glass of water in front of speakers when the mantra is played.

It can be taken by all in the family.

It can be given to persons who are in bad company.

It can be sprayed in the house or kept in the north-east corner of the house.

It can heal and transform the areas affected by violence, terrorism

• Write the name of areas where you want peace and keep the paper under a glass container.
• Fill the container with water [50 ml].
• Play the CD.
• After half an hour, thank the Mantra and pour the water in the garden, in the open space, in your balcony or veranda and allow it to be evaporated by the sun rays.

May you Be Open to the Rays and Grace of Durga Durgama!!!

I want to die before you…

Mahesh

I heard these words from my wife, while I was listening to the “CIRCULAR BREATHING” CD.

She was arguing with her father, a widower and who is staying with us.

His son is living in US and so we offered to take care of his stay.

I didn’t want to break into their fight as it would mean either I hurt the feelings of my wife or my father-in-law.

While I was pondering over these words of my wife, the mantra NA HUM was playing in the CD.

It means I am dead – meaning my ego is dead.

I thought there is a divine message for me here.

So I decided to shut my ego and not to interfere with the fight.

After one hour while I was having my breakfast, my father-in-law approached me.

My wife was silent standing next to him with guilt all over her face.

He apologized for the quarrel happened in the morning, as it would have disturbed my morning Pranayama (yogic breathing) session.

He said here afterwards he will make sure that such things never happen.

My wife’s silence seems to be in total concurrence with him.

I don’t have to say I am quite relived as I had avoided disasters – today and in the future too, from happening.

Till today I do this without involving myself in any event.

Naran

Just observe what is happening around you.

Do not judge or react or participate.

To know more about the “Circular Breathing” CD, click this link: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/10/01/circular-breathing-cd-benefits-and-instructions/

It will be a WELCOME CHANGE for you

Purpose of the “Welcome Change” CD

The switch word content is recorded in the tonal frequency of 7.83 Hz, which is earth’s natural brain wave, and thus resonating with the Earth wave.

This frequency improves stress tolerance helps one to recover from physical or mental injury.

This 7.83 Hz frequency helps you feeling revitalized, as if you have spent a happy holidays in the country side.

The ‘Welcome Change’ CD will help you in the following life situations:

Change others

– To turn one from evil ways

– You want to change a person, (listen to “Praise Thanks” CD also)

Relationships

– You want to keep your enemies away and to surrender to God

– You want to turn somebody’s/husband’s attention towards you

– You want to get love and kindness from others

– You want to restore a broken relationship

– You are dependent on somebody and you want to become independent

Money

– You want to become free of debts

– To make up loss

– There is mounting expenditure

– You want to get back what is lost

Job, Career and Business

– Your contract expires and you are asked to go back to your home country

– There is lay-off in your work and you want to resume again

– Your visa or passport is not extended or delayed

– You want to be free of problems at office

– You want a transfer

– You are blocked, or prevented by others from moving forward

– You want to change your position in the office

Life

– Problems come one after the other

– Transit easily to another phase (marriage is transition; pregnancy is transition; children’s milestones)

– You want to get back the good name

– You are asked to vacate suddenly from your rented house and you cannot do that immediately

Health

– You need rejuvenation

– To revive consciousness

– To recover after illness

Each and Every Product Has A Life!!!

Malini

I had attended your lecture held at Raj Bhavan and bought a book written by you on forgiveness.  I have been reading it again and again since 2 days and my daughter also reads it.  I find a lot of changes since 2 days after reading this particular book.

1. My daughter is having her half-yearly (11th std.) exams. She always watches TV and sits before computer to chat with her friends on Facebook and does not study for exams. Just one day she read this “Forgiveness” book and then started studying seriously for her exams.  She got up at 4 am today.  What a surprise!!  I thanked this book and you as my guru.
2. Today my heart chakra started vibrating fast and I had a feeling of happiness in my heart chakra.  I still keep this forgiveness book in my hand bag.  I read it in train on way to my home (though I had read many times).  It is really amazing.  I do not want to experiment it but I feel a good energy is coming from this particular book and making good to me and as well as to my daughter.

 Each and every product taken from you has a life by itself!!!

Thank you

Regards

PS:

She refers to the book written by Naran S. Balakumar, “Forgiveness – why and how”. To buy the book, please check out the link: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/faq-on-buying-naran%e2%80%99s-products/

Resolve your financial issues

Mr. ER

I had been trying many ways to increase my finances and increase higher and continuous inflow of money into my life. My ambition and dream is to have financial freedom.

Recently I came to know about switch words. Do switch words work 100%? Actually, I am writing this mail to you mainly for the ‘Abundance’ CD that will work on the subconscious mind to attract more money into my life.

Naran

I will ship the CD. Switch words will work 100%.

Tell me what you are doing. Is there any problem with earning? Why do you want to have more money? What will be your state of mind if you don’t amass wealth?  What feelings and thoughts that will come to you then? What will you do with the money?

Mr. ER

You asked me why I want money. It’s like you asked me why I want food and clothes.

I come from a middle-class background where our life is always decided by lack of money. We have to think 20 times to spend 10 rupees. Almost all the problems in my life and my bitterest experiences were due to money.

I don’t like my work either. But have to do for money. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own.

My father says ‘to come up in life, we have to work very hard.’ If that is true, a labour person works very hard but hardly gets even food. As Deepak Chopra says the shortest way to get anything is correct not the hard way.

So I turned to spirituality to raise my standard. Not only my financial development, but my spiritual and all-round development is dependent on money. I feel switch words are a gift to me from the universe for my years of quest to change my life. Please help me with effective ways to manifest money along with switch words.

Naran

Chant “WILLOW RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND COUNT DIVINE” 200 TO 300 times daily.

Release all your aversion to the present state. Any state we have to accept and overgrow it.

“I don’t like my work. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own” – if these thoughts occupy the mind, money will not come. Money will flow in when you willingly accept the situation. Any situation is designed by God.

Start liking the job. If you do it with aversion, and don’t contribute your work with full heart, you are stopping your growth. Daily thank the company who gave you the employment. Thank all the people in the office. Start liking the place. Compromises are there in everybody’s life. They are made to move forward in life and not to get stagnated.

Write “DIVINE LOVE MANIFEST IN MY HEART”.

I will also send you the CD entitled “I Love Myself” also, in addition to the Abundance CD.

Best of luck

Explanation

Handle resentment and aversion: WILLOW, Bach Flower Remedy

Release our resistance to growth, abundance and success: RELEASE RESISTANCE, switch word

Find money: FIND COUNT DIVINE, switch words

“I LOVE MYSELF” CD is a subliminal CD to help you love self, relationships, career and life in general and “ABUNDANCE” CD helps you to accumulate wealth with happiness.