Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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Forgiveness CD Instructions and Benefits

Description

Learn to forgive today with this CD, which contains the frequency signature of Bach Flower Remedy WILLOW, a flower to open our heart to gratitude and the frequency signature of Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT to break the pattern of resentment.

Why we need to forgive?

Harboring resentment is doing more harm to us than the offender. By forgiving we become calmer and confident.

Benefits

It is a multi track CD and it also contains the switch words for forgiveness. The Switch Words selected are REVERSE BOW TINY CONCEDE. When this command reaches your subconscious mind, the internal change will start happening not only in you but also in opposite persons.

Subliminal affirmations are repeated more than 10000 times. The affirmation contains, “I release the need to blame anyone including myself. Everyone is doing his best, thinking what he thinks is right. All my relationships are loving harmonious”.

One more audio track contains brain wave frequencies which open your heart and quite your mind from resistance, if any.

Instructions

•          Listen to the CD with your headphones.
•          Don’t drive, or do any heavy work.
•          You may lie down or sit
•          Listen to the CD at least once a week and every time you need to forgive somebody. For long-standing issues with your spouse or family members, listen to it on a regular basis.

Relax and listen to this CD without any expectation. This listening is a tool and you have to make the internal change by getting released from survival emotions.

Listen and live blame-free.

Best of luck

Naran

Inner Smile Brings an Outer Smile

We normally ignore our organs. We always take the body for granted. The day when we send our love, our smile to the organs, they become our friends. A friendly relationship with our organs is a must to maintain our harmony outside. If there is conflict or disharmony in others, become silent and send your love to your organs. A weekly listening of the CD will establish harmony in every aspect of our life.

– From the introduction of Inner Smile CD

Her boss was rude about her report

Anjali’s boss was not a typical boss. However, for some reason he couldn’t accept the annual report she prepared for the board of directors. He was critical of her report by all means, even though she felt she had done a great job.

Anjali approached me to find a solution to her problem, as she felt she can’t make any more improvement. From my work with her, I knew she didn’t give due care to her body. So I didn’t prescribe her any remedies. I just asked her to listen to the CD for twice a day, for a week and then on a regular basis for once a week.

She listened to it, as per my instructions. After a couple of days, her boss approached her and told her that he was over-cautious as the report is for the board of directors. He apologized for his over-reaction and suggested that it would be enough if only a couple of minor changes are made to the report. Anjali made the changes, which she felt was quite acceptable and easy to make.

Moral of the story

When you show love to your body, others will show love to you and your work.