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Why my husband felt hurt
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Raga
In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com site.
But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.
Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.
Shobana
Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.
Raga
It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.
In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.
I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.
He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.
It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.
Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.
Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.
Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.
Related Blogs
The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/
A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
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Relationship with Parents = Relationship with Others
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Kasi
Job
I am trying for good job for past three years but only phone calls I am receiving after that I am not getting any response.
Currently I am working for a company in UAE, but for past three yrs they didn’t give me any increment or any facilities. I am like slave here and I am in a responsible post so that I need to follow curtail rules and regulations but the CEO and the Operations manager does not allow me to do that and always cornering me. And they are doing illegal jobs.
Pls help me to find a good job very soon. I am afraid also.
Family
Always there is no understanding between our family members, whenever we all get together definitely there will be fight and we lose our happiness. Particularly everybody is scolding mother, pointing out her mistakes and etc. So always there is problem like this.
Now I am not talking to my mom, father, sisters and brother.
Kindly suggest me to get rid of this and give me some mantra for my anger, misunderstanding, suspecting, and possessiveness, jealous and backstabbing and fighting.
Naran
Did you notice your questions about your work place and family is similar?
There is always a web in anybody’s life.
What you do to others will be done to you.
Can anybody, who insults his parents, live peacefully in this world?
The physical parents represent our own father and mother principle. You are part of them.
Phone up your parents and ask for forgiveness.
Keep their photographs and daily do 11 prostrations to them.
During every prostration, say “DIVINE! FORGIVE ME! LOVE ME I THANK YOU”. Do this for one year.
However they are, you have to CONCEDE and BOW.
There cannot be any relief in your life if you don’t do this.
In the night before sleeping, while on the bed, listen to the Two CDs “FORGIVENESS” and “TOGETHER DIVINE”.
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