Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

Forgiveness CD Instructions and Benefits

Description

Learn to forgive today with this CD, which contains the frequency signature of Bach Flower Remedy WILLOW, a flower to open our heart to gratitude and the frequency signature of Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT to break the pattern of resentment.

Why we need to forgive?

Harboring resentment is doing more harm to us than the offender. By forgiving we become calmer and confident.

Benefits

It is a multi track CD and it also contains the switch words for forgiveness. The Switch Words selected are REVERSE BOW TINY CONCEDE. When this command reaches your subconscious mind, the internal change will start happening not only in you but also in opposite persons.

Subliminal affirmations are repeated more than 10000 times. The affirmation contains, “I release the need to blame anyone including myself. Everyone is doing his best, thinking what he thinks is right. All my relationships are loving harmonious”.

One more audio track contains brain wave frequencies which open your heart and quite your mind from resistance, if any.

Instructions

•          Listen to the CD with your headphones.
•          Don’t drive, or do any heavy work.
•          You may lie down or sit
•          Listen to the CD at least once a week and every time you need to forgive somebody. For long-standing issues with your spouse or family members, listen to it on a regular basis.

Relax and listen to this CD without any expectation. This listening is a tool and you have to make the internal change by getting released from survival emotions.

Listen and live blame-free.

Best of luck

Naran

Doing it the Right Way!!!

Just when you think everything is going on well, you end up with an argument with someone on the road.

Who triggered it? You would blame on the other person. However, beware, even before you got into the fight, your chakra(s) would have started to vibrate in such a way, that it’s ready to fight.

You are tired about your office politics. Yet when you reach home, your wife hugs you with full of love, giving no reasons. Once again, your chakras have done the trick. It’s ready to receive love, even though mentally you are not ready.

How do we tune the chakras in such a way that they are ready to be tuned for a life of happiness and well-being? It can be done in two ways: by chanting Bija Mantras or listening to certain vibrations as each of the seven chakras resonate for a certain frequency.

In addition, Bija Mantras – Lum, Vum, Rum, Yum and Hum, along with Om takes care of our life and health issues

When chanted in one way they have some effect. Refer the article and check out the effect of Bija Mantras on our moods and life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/let-us-protect-our-mother-earth/

While it takes care of our relationships when chanted in another way. Refer: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/06/11/relationship-mantras/

Listen to Vibrate with Bija Mantras CD

Naran now has produced a CD, where he has combined Bija Mantras with the required sound frequency for each Bija Mantra. Therefore, when you listen to the CD both the Bija Mantras and the sound frequencies, produces the desired effects on our chakras.

Instructions to be followed

You can walk or sit while listening to the CD. Though, you need to hear it with your head-phones. If you want to chant the Bija mantras following the CD, then chant the Bija Mantras alone, ignoring OM.

Do this once a day at least and preferably in the morning, to have a great day. However, if you have a bad day, in order to regain your good moods and peace of mind, listen to them before going to sleep.

The CD runs for 30 minutes. However, there is no restriction to the amount of time you need to listen. More is merrier, though!