Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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More the problems stronger I become

Mrs. Divya

From morning, I was brooding on one of the problems that cropped up in the past 3 days. I was praying to solve the problem and left it to the Divine to provide a solution. Earlier, I had cried so much in the morning.

I had bought the Power Life Symbols Workshop CD from the centre a day back. I started listening to it. On listening to your voice, I am not sure what energy entered my body, my pain was gone. My feelings were cleared and felt so nice.

Divine is probably trying to clear the problems in my life.

The problem I was facing then was I was struggling to arrange for funds for our house-warming Pooja. And finally it did happen. Divine provided me the funds with all my savings. I could not believe my eyes that I had made up so much of savings.

Then suddenly my in-laws raised a problem for my husband. They were forcing him to borrow money from others and pay them a sum of rupees 2 lakhs.

I became a little upset. Finally, I could arrange for the funds up to 2 lakhs and gave it to my husband. I am not sure how it happened and I do not know what’s happening around me.

These days, I am becoming stronger and stronger more as the problems were shooting up. I see some connection here – after I bought and started listening to the CDs: “Leap forward and progress”, “Durga Durgama” and “Shivohum”

All these changes have happened. How to co-relate these changes, I do not know?

Once again, thank you so much.

Naran

The workshop CD contains a meditation based on the relationship between Lord Krishna and his friend Khusela. It is a story on how a poverty-driven life was changed to prosperity-filled one, all because of total devotion of Khusela to his friendship without having any expectations.

That has done the trick to Divya to solve her financial problem. Her faith is divine has helped her to open up to the healing energies of the meditation and solve her financial problems.

One day, I will come out with a CD based on that story for the benefit of all.

ONE leads to TWO

R Mohan

In general, I was feeling relatively in good peace for the last few months – no big fights, and no major conflicts. I guess, it is all due to listening to the two CDs – ‘FORGIVENESS’ and ‘TOGETHER DIVINE’.

However, last one week, I noticed I found myself getting irritated on my fellow-travelers and sometimes strangely even on those who are not present in sight.

I wondered why these old feelings about them are playing once again. It struck immediately to me that my mind is playing those memories of anger.

So I put on the CDs on HARMONY – one to LET GO DISHARMONY and another to CREATE HARMONY in our lives. Within a day or two, I was able to come out of those old memories and in a week, I was able to come out totally.

ONE leads to THREE

In the same way, suddenly I noticed resistance is pulling me back in trying out new ventures, which I was comfortably coasting earlier.

Based on the experience gained on dealing with anger-type memories, I decided to deal with my internal resistance – firstly due to desires (RELEASE RESISTANCE), secondly due to having (RELEASE) FEARS and thirdly due to reluctance to leave my comfort zone (WELCOME CHANGE).

The result – within a week, I was able to be back on track. Of course, I am back to listening to my favorite CDs Together Divine and Forgiveness.

It is amazing to think how Naran can figure out the various eccentrics of human behaviors and find ways to deal with them in a simpler way.

Thanks Naran!

Getting benefits out of meditation

I want to get the benefits out of the meditation. And at the same time my mind gets distracted. Will there be any possibility?

Or will there be any chance of getting the benefits of meditation, even though there are distractions?

Yes definitely there is a possibility. All the CDs in the Bach Flower Study Centre are tuned in certain brainwaves. Whenever a person goes into a deep meditation, or deep meditative level, the brain produces certain waves called Brainwaves.

When you are in deep meditation you go to Alpha, then Theta and then Delta. Normally our distractive mind is in Beta State.

When you listen to the Meditation CD with a headphone, whatever Alpha waves generated will be imposed on your brain. When those waves are imposed, you will be forced to come out of Beta level and you will be in the silence mode.

In that way, you can silence the rebellious or the resisting mind. That is the only way by which you can do meditation.

The other way is really cumbersome for every time you have to be careful about the mind, because the mind is a great trickster. You think that you will be able to manage it, for when you just say ‘release’, the thought goes off.

You feel happy then. But the happy state itself is another thought – whether it is happiness, sadness, calmness, worry, anger or love, all of them is a thought.  Every such thought has to be released.

Relationship with Your Inner Saint

Finding happy relationships

Everybody has one God-given talent, irrespective of whether they are successful and happy in their relationships or not.

All of us have an Inner Saint. Our success and happiness depends on how much we tap that resource and use it (for any aspect of your life). It is either sitting idle inside us – for most of us it is true, or we may be using it a little bit.

The happy souls are those who dig into themselves, find their Inner Saint and learn to reach it anytime they want.

What do we gain out of accessing the Inner Saint?

• You will get inner guidance – a universal knowledge that gives the knowhow to handle your problems.
• It helps you to find out where you are going wrong and how to rectify it.
• It also guides you how to fix things right.

I am convinced, please tell me how to tap that resource, you may say.

Let Go Disharmony and Find Harmony

Naran has created a CD – containing two tracks, which helps you in the form of a guided meditation, to tap the Inner Saint, especially to heal your relationships. The meditation helps you to get in touch with that part. Lie down or sit comfortably and listen to the CD, which runs for 30 minutes each.

The CD contains brain wave entertainment and the first part is to be followed by the second part. Releasing is needed every time. You listen to the first track to and then go to the second track or listen to both of them, one after another.

What happens then?

The guidance mayn’t come literally in the form of ideas immediately.

Over a day or two, you will get the answers in the form of intuition or messages from outside.  They will reveal to you on how you need to act and fix your relationships

It doesn’t stop here

The CDs also has affirmations – audible, and switch words (not audible), which makes it further easier for you to heal your relationships.

The affirmations are in two parts – one to heal the disharmony and another one to create harmony. For a list of those affirmations, please check the links:

http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/no-more-disharmony/

http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/24/harmony-and-love-waiting-your-door-step/

To buy the CDs check out the link: http://naranshealingmethods.wordpress.com/sf/ and read “How to buy Naran’s Products?”

It will be a WELCOME CHANGE for you

Purpose of the “Welcome Change” CD

The switch word content is recorded in the tonal frequency of 7.83 Hz, which is earth’s natural brain wave, and thus resonating with the Earth wave.

This frequency improves stress tolerance helps one to recover from physical or mental injury.

This 7.83 Hz frequency helps you feeling revitalized, as if you have spent a happy holidays in the country side.

The ‘Welcome Change’ CD will help you in the following life situations:

Change others

– To turn one from evil ways

– You want to change a person, (listen to “Praise Thanks” CD also)

Relationships

– You want to keep your enemies away and to surrender to God

– You want to turn somebody’s/husband’s attention towards you

– You want to get love and kindness from others

– You want to restore a broken relationship

– You are dependent on somebody and you want to become independent

Money

– You want to become free of debts

– To make up loss

– There is mounting expenditure

– You want to get back what is lost

Job, Career and Business

– Your contract expires and you are asked to go back to your home country

– There is lay-off in your work and you want to resume again

– Your visa or passport is not extended or delayed

– You want to be free of problems at office

– You want a transfer

– You are blocked, or prevented by others from moving forward

– You want to change your position in the office

Life

– Problems come one after the other

– Transit easily to another phase (marriage is transition; pregnancy is transition; children’s milestones)

– You want to get back the good name

– You are asked to vacate suddenly from your rented house and you cannot do that immediately

Health

– You need rejuvenation

– To revive consciousness

– To recover after illness

The OPTIMIST

Naran

Purpose of the ‘The OPTIMIST’ MagicSwitch CD

When there is success in the path, one feels elated.

But when difficulties like delay and hindrance occur then we do feel depressed or sad.

To keep on making one’s efforts, one requires optimism and should think optimistically.

To keep one in high spirits and to persevere, the ‘The OPTIMIST’ MagicSwitch CD, which contains switch words, recorded in the frequency of 10 HZ, can help them.

‘The Optimist’ MagicSwitch CD will help you in the following life situations:

Life

– There is a failure

– There is a break-down

– There is a sudden set-back

– You think, “I have only problems in life. Nothing good will happen to me”

– “I cannot succeed in life”

Personal

– One thinks that he is a victim of circumstances

– After an abortion

– To say “NO” politely

– After any disappointment in life

– “I am a failure”

Job, Business and Career

– After resignation or after being forced to resign

– The sales are declining (listen to “New Ideas” MagicSwitch CD also)

– One needs success;

– To get the job (listen to “Welcome Change” MagicSwitch CD also)

Magic Switch Words

Why I need to listen to these MagicSwitch CD series?

How many times you can chant in a day? Say 1000 times or 2000 times, while doing all your household work or office work.

Also, can you remember to do it throughout the day, day and out? Not possible for ordinary souls like us. It’s mentally tiring and boring too.

No problem for me. I can do it as I am a die-hard.

But, how long you would like to do as one problem goes from life, another problem follows us?

May be, you think you can store the switch words in your mobile and listen to it the whole day – ignoring TV and other entertainment that you may seek normally. Yet it is not efficient.

Also, in this fast-paced world we need a quick fix, a simple approach which doesn’t take time and quite effective in terms of time taken.

Is there is a simple technique available?

Yes there is a technique that needs shorter duration. It is effective as well as efficient.

What I need to do?

You just have to listen to the MagicSwitch CDs from Naran. He has picked ten of the most powerful combination of switch words and has recorded them in Alpha frequency.

How much time it takes to listen to a MagicSwitch CD?

It takes up about 30 minutes.

During this time your sub-conscious mind would have listened to the switch words combination for 25,000 times.

It has a nice background music that will keep you in a relaxing mode.

You can either put your head phones on or play it loudly for others to listen – especially when you want your kith and kin to be benefitted.

Why it is effective?

Because you are listening to Magic Switch Word Combination recorded in Alpha state, your conscious mind relaxes and thus you are killing two birds in one stone – relaxation plus programming your subconscious mind. Therefore, the words reach your sub-conscious mind directly and have a greater impact on it.

Still I don’t understand how can I listen to the switch words 25000 times within half-an-hour

The same combination is played one after another multiple times, such that at the same time you will be listening to the Magic Switch Words combination multiple times. So it is efficient to listen to them this way instead of you saying the words monotonously.

The Music and switch words are tuned to keep one in alpha state so that switch words produce better results. 

A little more explanation on the brain wave frequencies please…

Every mental state, whether it is positive or unwanted, keeps the brain in a particular frequency.

Depending on the number of cycles per second, each frequency is classified as beta, alpha, theta, delta and gamma.

If there is a frequency for worry, there will be another frequency for calmness and relaxation.

Each MagicSwitch CD as per the title keeps your mind in that frequency, while listening to it.

The required frequency is achieved by binaural beats, monaural beats or isochronic tones.

Each and every title (MagicSwitch CD) has a background music blended with isochronic tones and combined with switch words.

Forgiveness CD Instructions and Benefits

Description

Learn to forgive today with this CD, which contains the frequency signature of Bach Flower Remedy WILLOW, a flower to open our heart to gratitude and the frequency signature of Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT to break the pattern of resentment.

Why we need to forgive?

Harboring resentment is doing more harm to us than the offender. By forgiving we become calmer and confident.

Benefits

It is a multi track CD and it also contains the switch words for forgiveness. The Switch Words selected are REVERSE BOW TINY CONCEDE. When this command reaches your subconscious mind, the internal change will start happening not only in you but also in opposite persons.

Subliminal affirmations are repeated more than 10000 times. The affirmation contains, “I release the need to blame anyone including myself. Everyone is doing his best, thinking what he thinks is right. All my relationships are loving harmonious”.

One more audio track contains brain wave frequencies which open your heart and quite your mind from resistance, if any.

Instructions

•          Listen to the CD with your headphones.
•          Don’t drive, or do any heavy work.
•          You may lie down or sit
•          Listen to the CD at least once a week and every time you need to forgive somebody. For long-standing issues with your spouse or family members, listen to it on a regular basis.

Relax and listen to this CD without any expectation. This listening is a tool and you have to make the internal change by getting released from survival emotions.

Listen and live blame-free.

Best of luck

Naran

Please help me to forgive

Anger Eraser Part III

Please refer this link to read the previous article in the series – “Remove My Angry Instinct – Anger Eraser Part II”: http://wp.me/ptUKY-6D

Is there is an easy way to forgive?

One day, when I was speaking with Naran, he told me that he has created a CD for forgiveness.

This happened six months after I had asked him whether there was any mantra for forgiveness. He did not give an immediate answer back then probably, because there are several mantras that can heal our anger, in their own way. There is no single mantra for forgiveness that was tailor-made for all.

Each of emotion vibrates in a certain frequency

He explained briefly that our brain vibrates in a certain frequency when we are angry about somebody. Likewise when we forgive somebody it vibrates in a certain other frequency.

Thus, each emotion vibrates with certain frequency.

Thanks to research findings of a Japanese Scientist, Naran mentioned that he had found the frequencies of some of the Bach Flower Remedies like WILLOW and WALNUT. Like our emotions, the flowers too vibrate in a certain frequencies of their own. With the help of the Radionics, he was able to figure out those frequencies, which bring forgiveness in the heart and enables a person to get over his anger and stop blaming.

Based on this finding, he added that he had created a CD that will help us to forgive others.

The CD for Forgiveness

The reason he has created a CD because many find it difficult to forgive others, no matter what. So, he was trying to find an easy way out to help people to forgive others easily and effortlessly.

He asked me to try the CD first and share the results with him.

Here, I wanted to share something about Naran. He is a person who is not blunt. He subtly points things to you. Let us say he wants to tell me that I am lazy and I am not using my potential fully, he will say so and so is lazy, indirectly giving his opinion about me.

So I guessed he had thought that I am the ideal guy to try to find the effects of the Forgiveness CD J

Listened to the CD (over head phone)

As a true lazy person, why would I say no to find an easy method to heal my unforgiving attitude?

The CD runs for 30 minutes.  I had been listening to it for the last one month, once a day.

Now, I have started to listen to it twice a day for deeper healing.

I found the CD beneficial is an understatement. Let me share my experiences in the best way I can.

I tried when I wasn’t angry

The whole day will be more or less with one or two angry episodes – I mean short temper or cursing/blaming somebody and may be none at all. In a typical day, I used to have at least 10 episodes of anger.

I tried when I was angry

Within a few minutes, my anger gets erased from the brain, which looks clean with no trace of anger in it.

The day I didn’t listen to the CD

I will go back to my normal ways – though my anger has come down a lot. However, during those days I was not comfortable with my own anger. I desperately wanted to soon come out of that.

Moral of the story

The one major behavior anybody who knows me from childhood attributes to me is that I will get angry very easily. I am not denying that as it is true.

And I think listening to the CD is a boon to me is as truthful as that.

Give it a shot and you will not be angry about me that I have suggested something wrong to you.

Good Luck!!!

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