Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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Relationship with Parents = Relationship with Others

Kasi

Job

I am trying for good job for past three years but only phone calls I am receiving after that I am not getting any response.

Currently I am working for a company in UAE, but for past three yrs they didn’t give me any increment or any facilities. I am like slave here and I am in a responsible post so that I need to follow curtail rules and regulations but the CEO and the Operations manager does not allow me to do that and always cornering me. And they are doing illegal jobs.

Pls help me to find a good job very soon. I am afraid also.

Family

Always there is no understanding between our family members, whenever we all get together definitely there will be fight and we lose our happiness. Particularly everybody is scolding mother, pointing out her mistakes and etc. So always there is problem like this.

Now I am not talking to my mom, father, sisters and brother.

Kindly suggest me to get rid of this and give me some mantra for my anger, misunderstanding, suspecting, and possessiveness, jealous and backstabbing and fighting.

Naran

Did you notice your questions about your work place and family is similar?

There is always a web in anybody’s life.

What you do to others will be done to you.

Can anybody, who insults his parents, live peacefully in this world?

The physical parents represent our own father and mother principle. You are part of them.

Phone up your parents and ask for forgiveness.

Keep their photographs and daily do 11 prostrations to them.

During every prostration, say “DIVINE! FORGIVE ME! LOVE ME I THANK YOU”. Do this for one year.

However they are, you have to CONCEDE and BOW.

There cannot be any relief in your life if you don’t do this.

In the night before sleeping, while on the bed, listen to the Two CDs “FORGIVENESS” and “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

The most important sacred word

Together Divine CD

Benefits

The most sacred word in English is TOGETHER. This Word unites the outer world and inner world. Together is the sacred switch word that brings all parts – all differing and conflicting parts – of the mind TOGETHER.

The separated self which is the seat of all our emotions is dissolved and united with the original self, which is always free and joyful.

By listening to the CD which takes you through alpha, theta and delta brain waves with the word “TOGETHER TOGETHER TOGETHER TOGETHER DIVINE”, one finds freedom, wisdom, happiness, harmony, and safety within oneself, so that there is harmony and happiness outside.

Instructions

•  Listen to the CD with your headphones.
• Don’t do any work while listening
• Preferably do it before going to sleep, as you will tend to fall to sleep

42-day Programme

Listening to the CD for a period of 42 days gives you a healthy mind and a healthy body, and brings happiness towards you.

The seeker becomes the sought and finds total peace, satisfaction, love, affection and much more.

Together Divine is a two-word formula that brings perfect geometry and order in everybody’s life.

Let our life be whole and complete with this two-word mantra, TOGETHER DIVINE.

Each and Every Product Has A Life!!!

Malini

I had attended your lecture held at Raj Bhavan and bought a book written by you on forgiveness.  I have been reading it again and again since 2 days and my daughter also reads it.  I find a lot of changes since 2 days after reading this particular book.

1. My daughter is having her half-yearly (11th std.) exams. She always watches TV and sits before computer to chat with her friends on Facebook and does not study for exams. Just one day she read this “Forgiveness” book and then started studying seriously for her exams.  She got up at 4 am today.  What a surprise!!  I thanked this book and you as my guru.
2. Today my heart chakra started vibrating fast and I had a feeling of happiness in my heart chakra.  I still keep this forgiveness book in my hand bag.  I read it in train on way to my home (though I had read many times).  It is really amazing.  I do not want to experiment it but I feel a good energy is coming from this particular book and making good to me and as well as to my daughter.

 Each and every product taken from you has a life by itself!!!

Thank you

Regards

PS:

She refers to the book written by Naran S. Balakumar, “Forgiveness – why and how”. To buy the book, please check out the link: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/faq-on-buying-naran%e2%80%99s-products/

Resolve your financial issues

Mr. ER

I had been trying many ways to increase my finances and increase higher and continuous inflow of money into my life. My ambition and dream is to have financial freedom.

Recently I came to know about switch words. Do switch words work 100%? Actually, I am writing this mail to you mainly for the ‘Abundance’ CD that will work on the subconscious mind to attract more money into my life.

Naran

I will ship the CD. Switch words will work 100%.

Tell me what you are doing. Is there any problem with earning? Why do you want to have more money? What will be your state of mind if you don’t amass wealth?  What feelings and thoughts that will come to you then? What will you do with the money?

Mr. ER

You asked me why I want money. It’s like you asked me why I want food and clothes.

I come from a middle-class background where our life is always decided by lack of money. We have to think 20 times to spend 10 rupees. Almost all the problems in my life and my bitterest experiences were due to money.

I don’t like my work either. But have to do for money. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own.

My father says ‘to come up in life, we have to work very hard.’ If that is true, a labour person works very hard but hardly gets even food. As Deepak Chopra says the shortest way to get anything is correct not the hard way.

So I turned to spirituality to raise my standard. Not only my financial development, but my spiritual and all-round development is dependent on money. I feel switch words are a gift to me from the universe for my years of quest to change my life. Please help me with effective ways to manifest money along with switch words.

Naran

Chant “WILLOW RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND COUNT DIVINE” 200 TO 300 times daily.

Release all your aversion to the present state. Any state we have to accept and overgrow it.

“I don’t like my work. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own” – if these thoughts occupy the mind, money will not come. Money will flow in when you willingly accept the situation. Any situation is designed by God.

Start liking the job. If you do it with aversion, and don’t contribute your work with full heart, you are stopping your growth. Daily thank the company who gave you the employment. Thank all the people in the office. Start liking the place. Compromises are there in everybody’s life. They are made to move forward in life and not to get stagnated.

Write “DIVINE LOVE MANIFEST IN MY HEART”.

I will also send you the CD entitled “I Love Myself” also, in addition to the Abundance CD.

Best of luck

Explanation

Handle resentment and aversion: WILLOW, Bach Flower Remedy

Release our resistance to growth, abundance and success: RELEASE RESISTANCE, switch word

Find money: FIND COUNT DIVINE, switch words

“I LOVE MYSELF” CD is a subliminal CD to help you love self, relationships, career and life in general and “ABUNDANCE” CD helps you to accumulate wealth with happiness.

Doing it the Right Way!!!

Just when you think everything is going on well, you end up with an argument with someone on the road.

Who triggered it? You would blame on the other person. However, beware, even before you got into the fight, your chakra(s) would have started to vibrate in such a way, that it’s ready to fight.

You are tired about your office politics. Yet when you reach home, your wife hugs you with full of love, giving no reasons. Once again, your chakras have done the trick. It’s ready to receive love, even though mentally you are not ready.

How do we tune the chakras in such a way that they are ready to be tuned for a life of happiness and well-being? It can be done in two ways: by chanting Bija Mantras or listening to certain vibrations as each of the seven chakras resonate for a certain frequency.

In addition, Bija Mantras – Lum, Vum, Rum, Yum and Hum, along with Om takes care of our life and health issues

When chanted in one way they have some effect. Refer the article and check out the effect of Bija Mantras on our moods and life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/let-us-protect-our-mother-earth/

While it takes care of our relationships when chanted in another way. Refer: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/06/11/relationship-mantras/

Listen to Vibrate with Bija Mantras CD

Naran now has produced a CD, where he has combined Bija Mantras with the required sound frequency for each Bija Mantra. Therefore, when you listen to the CD both the Bija Mantras and the sound frequencies, produces the desired effects on our chakras.

Instructions to be followed

You can walk or sit while listening to the CD. Though, you need to hear it with your head-phones. If you want to chant the Bija mantras following the CD, then chant the Bija Mantras alone, ignoring OM.

Do this once a day at least and preferably in the morning, to have a great day. However, if you have a bad day, in order to regain your good moods and peace of mind, listen to them before going to sleep.

The CD runs for 30 minutes. However, there is no restriction to the amount of time you need to listen. More is merrier, though!