Posted by Naran S. Balakumar
In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com site.
But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.
Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.
Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.
It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.
In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.
I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.
He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.
It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.
Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.
Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.
Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.
The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/
A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
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Posted by Naran S. Balakumar
I am from Detroit. I am very much thankful to you for all your advices which helped me a lot.
I also do the Forgiving exercise as and when I feel necessary at any time. I also chant Together Divine, few Slokas and Switch Words as and when required.
Wolf is now my best friend
I am happier to talk with it every day. It will help me in minor things and also in major things. I also thank wolf every day for all the help it gives me.
Thank You very much for giving such AMAZING Help in blogs, which is immensely useful for people like me who stay far away from Chennai and would never have known anything about them.
I will always be thankful to you, for making me learn about forgiving exercise.
Act of Forgiveness
When my brother brought the Forgiveness Exercise book and gave me I thought what’s up with my brother? Why he wants to give me a Forgiveness Book?
My brother told me that Naran told that this is a very important book. Then I decided I will first read the book.
I liked the way you explained that we need to forgive others for our own self and I started practicing the forgiveness exercise. It took a lot of time for me to forgive the first person on my list.
Slowly I learned that even when I am hurt I always feel better when I do forgiving exercise.
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