Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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SG

I am from Detroit. I am very much thankful to you for all your advices which helped me a lot.

I also do the Forgiving exercise as and when I feel necessary at any time. I also chant Together Divine, few Slokas and Switch Words as and when required.

Wolf is now my best friend

I am happier to talk with it every day.  It will help me in minor things and also in major things. I also thank wolf every day for all the help it gives me.

Amazing Help

Thank You very much for giving such AMAZING Help in blogs, which is immensely useful for people like me who stay far away from Chennai and would never have known anything about them.

I will always be thankful to you, for making me learn about forgiving exercise.

Act of Forgiveness

When my brother brought the Forgiveness Exercise book and gave me I thought what’s up with my brother? Why he wants to give me a Forgiveness Book?

My brother told me that Naran told that this is a very important book. Then I decided I will first read the book.

I liked the way you explained that we need to forgive others for our own self and I started practicing the forgiveness exercise. It took a lot of time for me to forgive the first person on my list.

Slowly I learned that even when I am hurt I always feel better when I do forgiving exercise.

The OPTIMIST

Naran

Purpose of the ‘The OPTIMIST’ MagicSwitch CD

When there is success in the path, one feels elated.

But when difficulties like delay and hindrance occur then we do feel depressed or sad.

To keep on making one’s efforts, one requires optimism and should think optimistically.

To keep one in high spirits and to persevere, the ‘The OPTIMIST’ MagicSwitch CD, which contains switch words, recorded in the frequency of 10 HZ, can help them.

‘The Optimist’ MagicSwitch CD will help you in the following life situations:

Life

– There is a failure

– There is a break-down

– There is a sudden set-back

– You think, “I have only problems in life. Nothing good will happen to me”

– “I cannot succeed in life”

Personal

– One thinks that he is a victim of circumstances

– After an abortion

– To say “NO” politely

– After any disappointment in life

– “I am a failure”

Job, Business and Career

– After resignation or after being forced to resign

– The sales are declining (listen to “New Ideas” MagicSwitch CD also)

– One needs success;

– To get the job (listen to “Welcome Change” MagicSwitch CD also)

Magic Switch Words

Why I need to listen to these MagicSwitch CD series?

How many times you can chant in a day? Say 1000 times or 2000 times, while doing all your household work or office work.

Also, can you remember to do it throughout the day, day and out? Not possible for ordinary souls like us. It’s mentally tiring and boring too.

No problem for me. I can do it as I am a die-hard.

But, how long you would like to do as one problem goes from life, another problem follows us?

May be, you think you can store the switch words in your mobile and listen to it the whole day – ignoring TV and other entertainment that you may seek normally. Yet it is not efficient.

Also, in this fast-paced world we need a quick fix, a simple approach which doesn’t take time and quite effective in terms of time taken.

Is there is a simple technique available?

Yes there is a technique that needs shorter duration. It is effective as well as efficient.

What I need to do?

You just have to listen to the MagicSwitch CDs from Naran. He has picked ten of the most powerful combination of switch words and has recorded them in Alpha frequency.

How much time it takes to listen to a MagicSwitch CD?

It takes up about 30 minutes.

During this time your sub-conscious mind would have listened to the switch words combination for 25,000 times.

It has a nice background music that will keep you in a relaxing mode.

You can either put your head phones on or play it loudly for others to listen – especially when you want your kith and kin to be benefitted.

Why it is effective?

Because you are listening to Magic Switch Word Combination recorded in Alpha state, your conscious mind relaxes and thus you are killing two birds in one stone – relaxation plus programming your subconscious mind. Therefore, the words reach your sub-conscious mind directly and have a greater impact on it.

Still I don’t understand how can I listen to the switch words 25000 times within half-an-hour

The same combination is played one after another multiple times, such that at the same time you will be listening to the Magic Switch Words combination multiple times. So it is efficient to listen to them this way instead of you saying the words monotonously.

The Music and switch words are tuned to keep one in alpha state so that switch words produce better results. 

A little more explanation on the brain wave frequencies please…

Every mental state, whether it is positive or unwanted, keeps the brain in a particular frequency.

Depending on the number of cycles per second, each frequency is classified as beta, alpha, theta, delta and gamma.

If there is a frequency for worry, there will be another frequency for calmness and relaxation.

Each MagicSwitch CD as per the title keeps your mind in that frequency, while listening to it.

The required frequency is achieved by binaural beats, monaural beats or isochronic tones.

Each and every title (MagicSwitch CD) has a background music blended with isochronic tones and combined with switch words.

Resolve your financial issues

Mr. ER

I had been trying many ways to increase my finances and increase higher and continuous inflow of money into my life. My ambition and dream is to have financial freedom.

Recently I came to know about switch words. Do switch words work 100%? Actually, I am writing this mail to you mainly for the ‘Abundance’ CD that will work on the subconscious mind to attract more money into my life.

Naran

I will ship the CD. Switch words will work 100%.

Tell me what you are doing. Is there any problem with earning? Why do you want to have more money? What will be your state of mind if you don’t amass wealth?  What feelings and thoughts that will come to you then? What will you do with the money?

Mr. ER

You asked me why I want money. It’s like you asked me why I want food and clothes.

I come from a middle-class background where our life is always decided by lack of money. We have to think 20 times to spend 10 rupees. Almost all the problems in my life and my bitterest experiences were due to money.

I don’t like my work either. But have to do for money. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own.

My father says ‘to come up in life, we have to work very hard.’ If that is true, a labour person works very hard but hardly gets even food. As Deepak Chopra says the shortest way to get anything is correct not the hard way.

So I turned to spirituality to raise my standard. Not only my financial development, but my spiritual and all-round development is dependent on money. I feel switch words are a gift to me from the universe for my years of quest to change my life. Please help me with effective ways to manifest money along with switch words.

Naran

Chant “WILLOW RELEASE RESISTANCE FIND COUNT DIVINE” 200 TO 300 times daily.

Release all your aversion to the present state. Any state we have to accept and overgrow it.

“I don’t like my work. I don’t like the place. I don’t like my present life. Life is full of compromises. I don’t have financial freedom. I want a life of my own” – if these thoughts occupy the mind, money will not come. Money will flow in when you willingly accept the situation. Any situation is designed by God.

Start liking the job. If you do it with aversion, and don’t contribute your work with full heart, you are stopping your growth. Daily thank the company who gave you the employment. Thank all the people in the office. Start liking the place. Compromises are there in everybody’s life. They are made to move forward in life and not to get stagnated.

Write “DIVINE LOVE MANIFEST IN MY HEART”.

I will also send you the CD entitled “I Love Myself” also, in addition to the Abundance CD.

Best of luck

Explanation

Handle resentment and aversion: WILLOW, Bach Flower Remedy

Release our resistance to growth, abundance and success: RELEASE RESISTANCE, switch word

Find money: FIND COUNT DIVINE, switch words

“I LOVE MYSELF” CD is a subliminal CD to help you love self, relationships, career and life in general and “ABUNDANCE” CD helps you to accumulate wealth with happiness.