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Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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It will be a WELCOME CHANGE for you

Purpose of the “Welcome Change” CD

The switch word content is recorded in the tonal frequency of 7.83 Hz, which is earth’s natural brain wave, and thus resonating with the Earth wave.

This frequency improves stress tolerance helps one to recover from physical or mental injury.

This 7.83 Hz frequency helps you feeling revitalized, as if you have spent a happy holidays in the country side.

The ‘Welcome Change’ CD will help you in the following life situations:

Change others

– To turn one from evil ways

– You want to change a person, (listen to “Praise Thanks” CD also)

Relationships

– You want to keep your enemies away and to surrender to God

– You want to turn somebody’s/husband’s attention towards you

– You want to get love and kindness from others

– You want to restore a broken relationship

– You are dependent on somebody and you want to become independent

Money

– You want to become free of debts

– To make up loss

– There is mounting expenditure

– You want to get back what is lost

Job, Career and Business

– Your contract expires and you are asked to go back to your home country

– There is lay-off in your work and you want to resume again

– Your visa or passport is not extended or delayed

– You want to be free of problems at office

– You want a transfer

– You are blocked, or prevented by others from moving forward

– You want to change your position in the office

Life

– Problems come one after the other

– Transit easily to another phase (marriage is transition; pregnancy is transition; children’s milestones)

– You want to get back the good name

– You are asked to vacate suddenly from your rented house and you cannot do that immediately

Health

– You need rejuvenation

– To revive consciousness

– To recover after illness

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