Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

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Achieve a sense of calmness

Rani

I have bought your “RELEASE your RESISTANCE” CD.  I am listening to it daily at night before sleeping as well as just playing it when the kids are around.

Please let me know if I have to chant anything along with it. I have been chanting “GENTIAN, LARCH, TOGETHER DIVINE” for some time now.

I am terribly insecure about my job though there are no major issues.

Naran

When you feel insecure, chant MIMULUS.  Buy “RELEASE your FEARS” CD.

Rani

I am now listening to the “RELEASE your FEARS” CD.

I feel a sense of calmness. Now, I am more at peace.

I keep listening to the CD even when I am at work.

Thank you very much.

Durga Durgama CD

The mantra ‘Durga Durgama’ is available in the form of CD.

Benefits of listening to the mantra CD

The sound frequency produced by the chanting (pronunciation) of the Mantra can transform anything that is unwanted and un-required, both from oneself and others.

Its frequency wipes out all the dark forces in the atmosphere.

Its Divine sound waves will clear, cleanse chakras, aura and all the bodies – Emotional, Mental, and Pranic.

How to use the mantra-charged water?

One can place a glass of water in front of speakers when the mantra is played.

It can be taken by all in the family.

It can be given to persons who are in bad company.

It can be sprayed in the house or kept in the north-east corner of the house.

It can heal and transform the areas affected by violence, terrorism

• Write the name of areas where you want peace and keep the paper under a glass container.
• Fill the container with water [50 ml].
• Play the CD.
• After half an hour, thank the Mantra and pour the water in the garden, in the open space, in your balcony or veranda and allow it to be evaporated by the sun rays.

May you Be Open to the Rays and Grace of Durga Durgama!!!

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This book is not just about Bach Flower Remedies, but a multi-dimensional approach to healing through Bach Flower Remedies. Therefore, in this book, you will also see reference to Gem remedies, Switch words, Animal spirit guides etc. 

Of course, as one would expect from Naran they offer life solutions which are not only very effective but very simple to follow. Welcome to the world of solutions using Naran’s unique multi-dimensional approach to healing!!!

In this regard, you will find in this book:

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3.       How to use Bach Flower remedies – how to do chanting of remedies, write names of remedies, use circle technique, how many times to chant, and other such frequently asked questions on Bach Flower Remedies.

Please also check out the book “Bach Flower Remedies for Children”, written by Naran

How to chant for others

Mentally visualize them and chant

Keep the person in your mind, make an intention you are doing the chanting for that person and go on chant the switch words, mantras and remedies prescribed.

Energize the water

Take a glass of water. For 100 times chant the switch words, mantras and remedies prescribed, holding a glass of water.  The water will be energized with the remedies. Now, drink it or give it to the person who needs healing.

Let them receive the energy of your chanting

Write the name of the person in a piece of paper. Keep it in the left hand. Place your right hand on the left hand and chant the required switch words, remedy names or mantras.

Variation of the above method

Mentally keep the person in your left palm. Keep the right palm about 18″ to 20″ away from the left hand. Go on chanting the switch words, mantras and names of the remedies. Bring the right hand slowly steadily towards the right hand and finally when it touches the left palm, end the chanting. Thank the person and say, “please go back to your place”. Thank the switch words etc too.

Doing it the Right Way!!!

Just when you think everything is going on well, you end up with an argument with someone on the road.

Who triggered it? You would blame on the other person. However, beware, even before you got into the fight, your chakra(s) would have started to vibrate in such a way, that it’s ready to fight.

You are tired about your office politics. Yet when you reach home, your wife hugs you with full of love, giving no reasons. Once again, your chakras have done the trick. It’s ready to receive love, even though mentally you are not ready.

How do we tune the chakras in such a way that they are ready to be tuned for a life of happiness and well-being? It can be done in two ways: by chanting Bija Mantras or listening to certain vibrations as each of the seven chakras resonate for a certain frequency.

In addition, Bija Mantras – Lum, Vum, Rum, Yum and Hum, along with Om takes care of our life and health issues

When chanted in one way they have some effect. Refer the article and check out the effect of Bija Mantras on our moods and life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/let-us-protect-our-mother-earth/

While it takes care of our relationships when chanted in another way. Refer: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/06/11/relationship-mantras/

Listen to Vibrate with Bija Mantras CD

Naran now has produced a CD, where he has combined Bija Mantras with the required sound frequency for each Bija Mantra. Therefore, when you listen to the CD both the Bija Mantras and the sound frequencies, produces the desired effects on our chakras.

Instructions to be followed

You can walk or sit while listening to the CD. Though, you need to hear it with your head-phones. If you want to chant the Bija mantras following the CD, then chant the Bija Mantras alone, ignoring OM.

Do this once a day at least and preferably in the morning, to have a great day. However, if you have a bad day, in order to regain your good moods and peace of mind, listen to them before going to sleep.

The CD runs for 30 minutes. However, there is no restriction to the amount of time you need to listen. More is merrier, though!