Why my husband felt hurt

Raga

In addition to the CDs that you suggested, I bought the “Welcome Change” and “Bach Flower Meditation” on the www.1minyoga.com  site.

But, whenever I listen to “Welcome Change” CD I get a slight headache. The same is not the case when I listen to the other CDs – Harmony, Forgiveness, Together Divine, I love myself and Bach Flower meditation.

Why does this happen like this? Should I continue listening or should I stop? Please advise me.

Shobana

Listen through speakers. Not by headphones. The welcome change is about changing oneself. Probably there is resistance to change. No one has complained so far about this.

Raga

It worked! I stopped listening to Welcome Change CD over the headphones and started listening through speakers and my headache stopped.

In fact, I keep running these CDs all throughout the day whenever it is possible and it is so pleasant. I am also using the “Release Resistance” CD while chanting and I find that I have been able to identify where I went wrong with my husband. Something that I didn’t identify exactly, but now I could pin-point that.

I can now empathize with him as to why did he get so much hurt. Something of my past which I thought is un-important and did not tell him because I felt it is not necessary or important for our marriage that he came across when he hacked my mails.

He got hurt that I did not share with him. He felt I don’t feel him important enough to share with him. From my perspective, he is being irrational. But, from his perspective, he is not able to accept that I did not share with him everything.

It is not necessary what I think about the situation. What is necessary is that I understand his pain when he read all that.

Whether he is right or wrong, I am not the judge, God only is the right judge and whatever HE decides is right.

Now, I really want to make amends. I really want to give my husband so much love and happiness and take away all his hurt and pain. I really hope Divine grace showers on my marriage and my husband comes out of this misunderstanding and suffering.

Thank you and Naran very much for giving such wonderful methods for overcoming so many problems of all.

Related Blogs

The Need for Forgiveness: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/the-need-for-forgiveness-and-the-story-of-drona/

A tendency to blame others: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/

Remove my fears please…

Afraid of rash drivers

Vinati

I get afraid whenever I drive my scooter in the main road. I am scared and tend to panic, when I come across. Sometimes, out of fear I stop my bike in the middle of the road.

Naran

Take two pills of ROCK ROSE for three months, once a day, before you start for the office.

Worried about my daughter’s safety

Radhika

Until my daughter return from school, I keep biting my nails.

Naran

Chant RED CHESTNUT, while biting your nails. She will return safe. You will stop worrying and stop biting your nails.

Scared of doctors

Rajan

However much my mind reasons out, the moment I go to a dentist, my body stiffens out,

Naran

Take pills of Mimulus and Rescue Remedy before visiting the dentist.

Nightmares

Day is nice, but night is a horror. A night doesn’t passes with me getting a nightmare.

Naran

Take Aspen pills before going to sleep in the night. You are sure to have nightmare-less sleep.

In the ‘RULE your MIND’ class

Naran

70% of you say the one pre-dominant emotion you have in your life is fear.

How to handle the fears?

Is there is a simple way to remove those fears?

Yes.

I have created a CD with switch words recorded in subliminal mode along with frequencies of the four Bach flower remedies – Aspen, Red Chestnut, Mimulus and Rock Rose.

It is called as ‘RELEASE your FEARS’ cd.

Please check out the link to buy the CD online or from the center: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/faq-on-buying-naran%E2%80%99s-products/

I want to grow spiritually

Haripriya

I have been listening to the CD’s and also chanting “SWEET CHESTNUT, ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD, FIND COUNT NOW DIVINE”.

The person who has to give money to my husband now says that he would able to give in the 1st week of April. Thank you very much for the divine guidance. I continue to chant the same.

Can I buy the CHAKRA ACTIVATION CD now or how can i progress spiritually.

Naran

You can buy CHAKRA ACTIVATION CD.

To progress spiritually listen to ‘I LOVE MYSELF’ and ‘SOUL LOVE’ CDs daily over headphone.

My ability to do things has increased

Mr. VN

I was listening to the Bach Flower CD yesterday night.

Today morning after I got up I could finish designing 15 web pages within one hour, which I thought will take a week or two. I generally think, I am lazy and I do things slowly. I am amazed that I did 15 pages at stretch. I guess, it might be due to the CD.

This is the fourth time I am listening to the CD.

Some more experiences using the Bach Flower Meditation CD:

1.       How a 3-year-old child got healed after feeling depressed due to missing of  his grant-parents who had gone away: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/04/24/meditation-on-bach-flowers/

2.       How the career of a person took a leap and his marriage got fixed by listening to the CD twice a day: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/02/02/all-time-all-purpose-healing-cd/

To buy the CD, check out this link: https://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/faq-on-buying-naran%e2%80%99s-products/

All-Time All-Purpose Healing CD

Tony was listening to the Bach Flower Meditation CD twice a day, after religiously trying out various healing techniques. While he could solve his entire career and finance related issues through those techniques, yet for some reason he couldn’t find a solution for his marriage. Even though his parents put in their best of their efforts, they couldn’t find a bride for him.

He was suggested to listen to the Bach Flower Meditation CD twice a day – with or without head phone and with or without full concentration.

After listening to the CD for one month he found himself busy at work. Before that, he used to find very little motivation to work. He welcomed this change. He continued listening to the CD.

After listening to the CD for two more months, he found himself a bride, through one of his relatives.

How the Bach Flower Meditation CD has helped him? Rather when we should use the CD?

Tony listened to it when he couldn’t decide upon the healing technique that would suit him to fix his marriage. Understand that every healing technique may not work at every time. You need to change to different techniques, as your mind and body changes every second. As through the CD, you address to each of the 38 flowers to come and heal you, the flowers take over your case and provide you the necessary healing.

How long I need to listen to it?

It varies from situation to situation. In the case of Usha, who misplaced her car keys, while listening to the CD, she walked like a sleep-walker and picked the key from the place where she has left it originally. She didn’t remember the place and neither was she prompted. She simply walked like a robot to the exact location.

In the case of a child who was mentally disturbed due to separation from his grant parents, it took a couple of days. Please refer this link:  http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/04/24/meditation-on-bach-flowers/

During pregnancy you need to listen during the whole period of pregnancy. Please refer this link: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/10/13/bach-flower-remedies-for-pregnancy/

How shall I listen to the CD?

You can listen while walking (with head phones) or driving or in the meditation pose (with head phones).